Still On Busola Dakolo's Rape Case - Akaninyene Etim

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Do not underestimate the power of naturalism!
Sometime, we seemingly fall in love with aesthetics of life, perhaps, gratifying our egos and hedonistic retributions!
Often time, the underestimation of the power of naturalism, seemingly culminates into man's vulnerability in putting blames to our either societal norms or the otherwise.

" Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo  raped me..."

I wouldn't blame the supposed religious leader, that, no man is above the imperfections of life, outstandingly, LOVE AND SEX, even as the Biblical David plotted and killed Uriah, just to devour Bathsheba, Uriah's wife
Robert Sternberg developed a theory; THE TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE.
In this theory, he examined concepts, called; the three components of love, which are: an intimacy component, a passion component, and a decision/commitment component.

Sternberg says that intimacy refers to "feelings of closeness, connectedness, and bondedness in loving relationships", passion refers to "the drives that lead to romance, physical attraction, sexual consummation, and related phenomena in loving relationships" and decision/commitment means different things in the short and long term. In the short-term, it refers to "the decision that one loves a certain other", and in the long-term, it refers to "one's commitment to maintain that love."
 From the analogy above, it could be deduced that certain life experiences occur due to our approaches to situations and relationship to 'components'
"Pastor Biodun raped me.." could be a false deduction, because of the 'passion' the then little Busola had to learn from him. Which the same passion is analysed by Sternberg as a drive to romance and sex.

According to 'Busola Dakolo' she could not say anything because of the 'closeness' she had with the Pastor, which is also examined by Sternberg.
She was speechless, maybe, she had been anticipating, or maybe, she had fallen for the pastor...who knows..
She had kept mute since her teen up until now without even a disclosure to her confidantes, even to her mother.

I would consider also Reno Omokri's stance on the issue as resilient, even as this allegation looks seemingly false,  lacking in substance and fundamental technicalities!
What are Busola's evidences.

I am Akaninyene Etim
I am not a religious fanatic
(C)
Sir Pascal Ohanma u might have some words to say...?

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